Hit And Run


Today the elder wanted to visit the dentish and so I parked the car and waited inside the car while he was inside the dental centre. 5 minutes later, a car drove by and double parked beside mine. The driver dashed to the nearby Damacai and his car was parked almost half feet to mine. He dashed back minutes later and reversed his car as there was another car at front. He knocked my rear and I yelled at him to stop. He did not bother and drove away. I looked at the car with the scratches and smudges on the bumper. I started the Nissan and drove off to run after him. There was quite a number of cars ahead thus making him unable to escape. I cut in to this car and demanded for a stop by negotiation.

The driver apologized and he claimed he was speeding off to have his father to hospital. I mentioned to him that he could still squeeze the time for Damacai and so it must not be issue. I demanded compensation and he paid RM200 for my loss. I really hope the repair of the paints would be at this range. I asked him to fetch his father to hospital quickly and drive carefully next time. My poor Nissan!

For those who want to have some luck with Damacai or magnum4D, the car number is KV6279B

Another trip to Cameron Highland



On Sunday, we went to the Cameron Highland for a short day trip. The kids always remembered this hill stop as they have you accompanied them at least twice last year. The kids remembered you like to have the tea at the tea cafe and remembered what was bought. It was the mouth blowing soap bubble! I had forgotten this as it was the last trip that they had these items bought and had fun with.
It was good to look at them playing and have laughs. I believed they always remembered the moment with you as the little one always said you were doing this or that or like this or that. The kids remember and so do I.

The news of a pupil drown during the participation to 1Malaysia Camp at Kampar River really sank my heart. It was really a most sadden news for everyone.
I always doubt about the safety precaution by organizing committees for this type of so called camp, outing and even the national service. People always forget the safety manner but only burst the fun parts of it but risk the life of the love one.
I would really wonder why the students are required to cross the bridge at night escpecially now is the raining session? Why at night?
My elder always wanted to join this type of activities but I always refused. I would not agree for the elder to join unless I be presence. I own the sole responsibility of the kids. My elder, I hope you understand this. And I would want to see you build up with better confident, with some exposure of survival, able to swim and response to emergency but till then you are not authorized for all these activities.
I pray for the loss and some one will learn from this type of tragedy.

Shrimping with fun


The shrimping (or shrimp fishing) is getting common in Ipoh as there is at two setup at my living area. The operation is somehow setup in an old fashion type. I would imagine that it could be resembled something like
1) customize family room with small pond and BBQ setup which can immediately cook the catch
2) table top with small shrimping rope to see the shrimp on the catch and also can immediate BBQ
This type of setup will definitely draw huge attention from youngsters and family as a gathering spots instead of getting rare old man type hobby of fishing.
May be I will need to get some funding sponsor and will setup this type of catch and cook yourself restaurant. Well at least in conceptual

Credit card is always the convenience cash replacement. This is always true especially at travel. Furthermore, with the recent snatch and run incidents, credit card will minimumly "protect" in some sense. This is provided the cancellation of credit card is done immediately before next swiping process.
The government decision to impose RM50 per credit card would not be a good idea at all. This tax should be imposed on bank as the card is issued by the bank and "forcefully" urging the client to spend with the card. The bank policy to almost freely give away credit card and thus result the bad debts should be the responsibility of bank as of not careful in client selection. Why the bad debts due to credit frault has to been divert to customers instead. I would want to see which bank will realize their responsibility and contribution to these bad debts and would subsidize the credit card tax. I would wait till the last week of Dec to cancel the excess cards.
I will choose to have the bank that has the best service to maintain the credit card. Or else, sorry, you are on the list of cancellation.

Gift of the year


This is the gift that we bought together perhaps in year 1992 when my parents moved to a new house from a wooden hut. I could still remember we were choosing the gift of house warming at Ipoh. The shopping mall was Crescendo and now Olympia College.
The bell is still at front of my parents house. Whenever there are blowing winds, the bell still gives its sweetest jingle. It reminds me of you.

Lesson to the kids

The elder one is always timid and shy to express especially at conflict or in stress. The little however tend to perference do not assume responsibility even when he was at fault.
There was an incident last night. The glass dining table somehow had one of its 4 legs "detached" but luckily the table did not collapse and broke. When I spotted that, two kids were holding the leg and trying to align it back. Quickly I applied glue to seal it back but worrying that the leg will be detached again and so the table will collapse. I will hope it will not.
I had interrogated them who was at fault and how this incident happen. They could not offer a good explanation although did provide some brief details. Apparently I found out that the glue had degraded and so with slight push, the leg would be bent. I had a talk to them and pretended wanted to can them. I demanded the admission of who were at fault...
The elder one claimed the little one had pushed the table and he saw the leg bent and so help to hold the table. He said the little instead went upstair and came back with toys assume nothing happen. I turned and asked the little one if this was so. He silence neither admit or deny but just stared pity at me. Then I led the elder inside the wash room and pretended canning his brother. He somehow explained further after this but still did not admit either. I asked him to stare at the wall for a while and tell me what had happened.
A while later, he told me that he pushed the table but did not aware that the leg had bent while he went up to locate toys. Upon returning he saw his brother holding the table and so he helped.OK, this is abit better.
The elder one however, leaked out to him that I never canned him... I hope the little one will learn something but not treading this as a game..
I would need to spend more time talk to these two prince of mine.

Gaining weight

I had been noticing that I am on the way to have the weight gain. First of all, I started observing the dummy then the chubby face. I really do not like to see myself in this figure and will definitely trim down. May be I will need to have some exercise; may be I do need for some body trimming programme. Hmmm.... may be all I need is to control my diet?
The elder also on the same path of weight gaining. And he is so noticable. There are muscles building up on his body. May be two of us will need to work harder with exercise or else we will be fatty dad and son.

Our photo


The protrait of our photo is still at the wall, at the back of the bed. I do not remember how long I did not have it washed but when I touched it with fingers, there are dusts. Dear, my apology for not taking care of this property.
The color of the photo still good and it always reminded me of our photography session... It was in year 1997. The photo is here to stay on.

Kids' room


The kids always messed up their room, with toys, books, stationery on the floor, tables and cabinet. Have been reminded them to tidy up their room repeatedly and I always spend a few minutes cleaning up mess. On Sunday night, while it was still early in the night, I decided to forced them to decide which are the toys to give away so as to reduce the quantity of mess inside the room. They complied and I found it was amazing that they willing to let go some of their toys. But too bad only for those already slightly defective. At least they are willingly to give away.
I also re-arranged the kids tables so now it appears to be more spacious. I hope they can maintain the room and I would not need to continue as the servant of cleaning up. :)


1Malaysia....

This slogan remains as slogan. I still do not see anything that really concrete and reflective as 1Malaysia except a few poster and ministry's fancy.
What is that really has changed?
If nothing is going to be done, this is GREAT as slogan at least!

I can U-Turn but you cannot


Moments ago, when my friend was driving me home and stopped at a traffic junction, a police patrol car was at the trial of having a U-turn at red light. The junction did not have a post that U-turn is allowed. I remembered hearing some ministry claiming that a U-turn is only allowed at where there is a U-turn signboard. Hey, what about this police patrol car.
First it broke the most important offence ... crossing when the red light is on. And secondly U-turn at a junction of no U-turn signboard.
There was also another incident a few weeks ago when I was driving along the Tasek road. I was on the way to Soo King's resting home when I spotted that there was also another police patrol car having the driver holding a phone and talking to phone. There were two police inside the patrol car. It did not pull off at the roadside to continue the phone conversation. I watched but I did not have my phone camera to capture down this. I am now just wondering if these police saw me taking down their offense images, what would they do to me?
It is really ashame that it is practising double standard.


I always refused the kids to play with fire even with those candles. They are restricted from assessing even lighters and matches. But this restriction was broken on the few nights before the mid autumn lantern festival. I had allowed and accompanied them lighting up the candles.

They also always like to burn something as I believed they enjoy watching the dancing flames. And so I approved them with my accompany. They would have you around if you still here to stay with them. Happy Mooncake!