Lunar Calendar Birthday

It was my Lunar Calendar Birthday on 2/20/2010. I woke up late after 9am. It was a little unusual for me to have been still on bed after 8am. It would normally only mean I was either sick or exhausted.
When I was ready to start my Latio engine to have the kids ready for the weekend schooling, it was almost 11am. And I did not yet done the routine household chores of cleaning the toilets and mopping the floor. When the little one bathing, I slipped with my whisper that he did not need to go for the saturday math class. He overjoyed but soon I found I made a wrong promise and so demanded and insisted it would be a normal class for him. He cried due to the broken promise. I insisted and he did not compromise but sobbing for sometimes.
I manage to calm soon after and he seem agreed to take on his bag preparing for his class. It would be normal for us to have brunch before the elder goes for the 2-hour computer class at 12pm and the little one for math class at 1pm.
After sending the elder, we went to the shop and planned to have the little one went for the class at 12.35pm and so reaching there before 1pm. I was having a drinks with a friend before I was rang informing that the Latio had been knocked at the rear bumper at the junction not far away from the shop. I dashed to the scene as it was only 1-minute running distance.
It was fortunate that the bumper only dislodged with some paint-off without serious damage. However, the negotiation of having compensation was not so pleasant as the middle-age lady insisted that she did not know it would have emergency brake with the green traffic light. I demand compensation of RM300 but she refused claiming that she would only pay for the bumper repair, but not the cost of re-painting. I argued with her although RM300 was not really sufficient to have the repair properly done. I should have changed the entire bumper to original new one instead of agreeing for a repair. Why would I agree as it was not my fault to have the bumper being knocked off. I already step back of agreeing for non standard repair...
Yet, she argued but her mother agreed to pay later.
Indeed, all these were done through phone as we let her drove off with her promise that she would compensate. At the time of this blog, I still yet to receive the compensation although her mother (over the phone) agreed to settle for this sum. I would wait.
And so I had the two cars numbers for Magnum4D and damacai. At 8pm, when I checked, her car number came out as special prize winning although shuffle the 4 digits.
It is my birthday today with a late woke up, minor car accident and winning a small sum from special prize from Damacai.

First day of year of the Tiger


It was almost 1am before the two kids returned and wanted to have the sleep. I would have myself on the floor while the kids on the queen size bed. The mattress isn't suit me at all as it is too soft. I was having back pain when I awake at 4am feeling sore throat and fever. This must be due to too much of heaty cookies as I finished up one whole can without sharing. I tried to force myself to have a nap but it only last another 3 hours then all three of us awake and went to pee together. I passed the new year red packet to the kids and received mine too. Then after, the kids wanted to have a car ride to town for some new year feel.
I told them it was totally different as compare to my childhood day as the street will fill with red papers and full of people on foot. The 4 lanes streets would fill up with two way of people walking from start of the street to end of the street. It would be really harmony to see so many people greeting together. Nowaday, it changed. There isn't any more people on street. There are neither a lot of cars as majority of the people would just rest and chit chat at home avoiding the crowd. The street seems a bit quiet although it was on 8. But it is expected for the first day of chinese new year. The street will be filled with congested cars starting on the second day and peak on the third days. I believed the kids would not be able to witness the occasion of people walk greeting on the street anymore. It is really a kind of memory.
As a common practise on the first day, we would just inside the car and finding the balloon. It is a kind of tradition for me to buy the kids balloons. I stopped at the vege shop and hoping can pack some vege noodles back. I was no luck as the vege shop no longer served those economical take away type vege noodles. Soo King was always keen to have it on the first day as she practised vege for whole day on the first. But we always ended up without having the noodles as we awaked late last time. This year, I awake early but still finding no vege noodles. I am sorry, Soo King.

I had the kids stopped at the food stall while I queued up buying noodles for them. Yes, it is queuing up. It took me around half an hour before i could order my menu although it was still before 8.30am and there wasn't too many people at the stalls. Next, we were on the car ride again although Kampar is not a stranger to us. I guessed this is the new year mood and You would have followed us too. Happy New Year!

Ushering to year of Tiger


At the eve of the arrival of tiger year, I dressed myself in red. I was in the clothing which you bought for me in year 2008. This will mark arrival of 2010(well at least for lunar calendar) and I believed it has a special meaning for me. Yaya... this year also granted me the age of 39. It would be just another three hundred plus day before I marched myself to 40....
I will face the new year and coming years with new resolution and new hope. I will.
We started off the eve with a visit to you before we drove to Kampar. It is the same eve with a sunny hot afternoon. Mother has been busy preparing dishes and I would just open and search for my favourite home made cookies. Soo King, join us for the reunion lunch and we remember you. By the way, join us also for the "chop up for higher fortune"

"Who moved my cheese"

Last night, the elder suddenly dropped by to the room with a book on his hand, titled "Who moved my cheese". He commented that he finished the book and understand the message. He also said he understand why his mother bought this book for him.
I halted and asked him what is the message of the book. He commented that one must look ahead and do not just stay at what it is now. I nodded and requested him to convey this same message to you. I saw him giving a short talk at front of your protrait but suddenly I could feel an acute pain at heart. It would be extremely wonderful to hear the elder words. He said thank you mother for buying this book. I choked on words...

A cake with wishes on my 39th BIRTHDAY


I received a cake. A small one with a lit candle. It was a special one as I could feel the wishes and meaning of it. I also received greeting from sms, facebook (why nowaday birthday greeting on facebook), a card and emails.

Ya... I am 39 now.



Yesterday was a replacement holiday for my work but I would still need to fetch the elder one to school in the early morning. The elder had commented that he wanted to be at school a bit earlier instead of leaving him only 5 minutes before the bell rang. And so we left house at 7am. The assess to the school always clear except at the junction before the school entrace. However, it was messy that morning as there was traffic jam. I saw a school bus halted at the mid of the road and people gathering, protraiting a scene of classic accident.


I passed by without stopping as I always did not want to witness such incident. I could never feel better on such occasion. I turned to the left when passing by the bus and glimpsed the legs and the body has been covered with newspaper. I knew it was a fatal case. It involved either a bicycle or motorcycle... I was so sad that I immediately cursed the bus driver. I bet it would be a case of ignorant of the bus driver. I saw how those school bus being driven as they always tried to squeeze through and speed off. I also saw where the bus stopping at the mid of the busy road and asking the students to get down with the passingby cars not farther than half a feet away. Damn!


I was so sorry on the spot of this loss of life. I hope the boy will rest in peace. I am sorry. I just could not offer a helping hand. I switched to another alternative route to return home as I could not bear the feeling of seeing loss. I am sorry!Today, on my birthday, I saw this photo on the STAR and it immediately reminded me of the incident. I could swear it was the deadly accident I saw yesterday. This photo really has an impact to me. I remembered the reminder ..."the kids must not have motorcycles" and this is the reminder from you, Soo King. I remember!

Android phones... Magic --> Hero --> Nexus 1


I have been trying out phones with the latest trial on Android. This is a new mobile phone OS which I believed it can compete head to head with Iphone. I would predict the end of windows mobile due to its outdated stylus based touch style. Without almost every touch based phones are using fingers, the outdated WM6.5 with same old stylus interface really making me sick.

I had both touch diamond 2 and touch HD with me last week, but I discarded them within the same first hour. Come on, it is first hour of trial... There is no different for WM... same slow performance and same old windows based interface. Sick!

I am still praising iphone for its intuitive and innovation although I expect more changes on the Iphone. Lately, I have my hands on the android, with first the HTC magic. The feel is really different. It is closely resembled to windows but with a lot of speed and easier to navigate. This is amazingly simple and smooth. Well done Google Android!
I had used the Magic for 5 days now and have my hand on the upgrade version now, HTC Hero. The white curvy phone really caught my attention even when it was just paper released last year. Now I am downloading the Android 2.1 to customize the Hero.

Tonight, I was lucky as a friend of mine brought me the just newly launched Nexus 1. Only word, wowwwwww.... Iphone, you better worry now with the Android really taking seriously into the market. The screen is so so much better compare to the iphone now and it is so fast with its 1GHz processor. This is what I called fast. WM, be serious on the speed improvement. It is not only you in the market of PDA based phone.
Well, where is Symbian... oppsss.... btw, what is Symbian. Nokia is the next one need to worry about its market share for its also outdated OS... WM and Symbian will soon be the history.

Well done, Android!

1 month after the new year 2010

Today is the 31 days of the 2010 calendar. It marked the end of first month after another 13 hours. I believed it is a time to start look back for self resolution as a starting point review. Well, the kids are definitely growing up and getting more independence. The elder one definitely grow up as he becomes more cautious and thoughtful on his speech and action although he is still carrying his typical trait of "not bother". His studies shown a bit of improvement. I still do not yet able to find time to guide him on his studies and he seems to be overjoy on this. This is simple reaction as I always carry my temper whenever I am guiding his studies. I bet this is one of the first attitude change I will need to manage. I just do not know why I still carry such a bad temper. Some days ago, I read one of the EQ assessment I had attended. The assessment described my character with almost over 90% accuracy.
The assessment claimed I am impatience, fast, do not listen to comment, always have self judgment etc. I believed I have been having this character ever since I have confidence in myself since I was young. There was sometime perhaps I was really humble that I believed Soo King also commented that I changed. But that was only lasted for not more than 6 months. May be I need to find back that character and control my emotion and expectation to others.
Well, back on kid...
The little has grew up to be more cheerful but started having disobey attitude and stubborn. I can see him inherit 90% of my character. I bet this is my fault. After all, I believed they observed alot of my attitude and matched to mine... This will need to be changed soon.

Avatar


When I watched the movie preview, it did not impress me at all. I thought it was just another CG base science fiction type movie. And so I was resisting to watch the film when it was on show. It was after three weeks later then I entered the cinema without any expectation.
It was really similar when Titanic was on show and received tremendous feedback as best movie of the year and so I was holding on to enter the cinema. I did not know why but both movies I did not like to join the crowd.
The movie started and so the aircraft reached Pandora. The introduction immediately drew my attention. It was really a revolutional idea and concept protraited for the movie. I guess the transfer of the arena of such natives to the planet Pandora really created some new hopes and excitement. I believed the natives could still resembled some of the natives elsewhere on Earth but if the screening was on local natives, this movie will not draw such tremendous success feedback.
The only comment... it is ugly for human...

Food Poison...

It was Sunday after the dinner when I started to have the stomach irration, sighting food poisoning. It was however, not that serious and so I did not bother the periodic pain. The pain continued for two days ryhthmatically and so finally I visited to the doctor to seek medication assistance.
It was really lucky that the two kids did not suffer the same although the elder already down with fever for two days. May be the purging will help in weight losing. LOL.

Trip to Singapore


We spent a 5 days holiday in Singapore during the December school break. The kids were overjoy when they were told about the trip. They were keen to board the plane at Ipoh. It was a small propeller plane that housed 80 people on a single trip. Although the kids had spent over 24 hours on plane when flying to US a few years back, they could have forgetten the "suffer" of long hour flying.
It was just 90 minutes flight before we landed at the Changi budget airport. It was so near now! The kids were always playing with their coursins on the way to the apartment. It was a surprise that the elder mentioned that he likes Singapore as it is more organized, less rubbish and more importantly he could easily "shopping" just at the ground floor of the apartment. What an idea! Perhaps this is really a place for younsters.
It was really a nice trip. There is at least a few items I notice the difference.
1) the broadband in Singapore is ssssssssssssssooooooo FAST
2) the spending on taxi and transport is a lot
3) shopping, ya only shopping and the branded items are way way cheaper
4) there are more Chinese than local on the streets
Next trip, I shall bring the kids to Hong Kong.

New year resolution

Normally I always have some ambitions and goals at the beginning of the years. But it turned out that most of them could not be accomplished at later stage. This repeats every year. I blame no other but myself.
This year, I have only three
1) lose weight. I will need to control for not over 65kg. Now 78kg...wow. This is something that I did not aware of till last Christmas. This goal also will parallel to the committed weekday morning wogging.
2) eyes on kids for education. I had been "neglecting" the kids' performance in education as I always believed they are kids and let them have some fun and childhood days. But with the elder approaching to standard six next year, I believed something has to be get started. I hope I can afford half an hour daily for the kids before they embark on FACEBOOK.
3) Cherish. I will need to cherish for whatever and whoever with me and was with me before. Alghough I still have some hatre over some guys and girls. I will forgive and move on. I hope those who hate me will let go.
After all, these are the three simple resolutions. Hmmm... I will have KPI later. Dr. Koh, you want to measure this?

Pasar Malam on Tuesday night


Before the kids with us, we spent every tuesday night walking around the pasar malam (night market) for food and some grocery items. You would not cook on the Tuesday night and when I returned home from work, it was almost time for the "shopping"
Till the kids joint us in end of 2007, we started going to the pasar malam as you would cook for the kids. You always wanted the kids to have good food and the good food would be from you. There were always great dishes I enjoyed. I do not think I could find any more similar now. I never told you that there are and always are dishes I enjoyed. Those are something really simple but I like them. I may one day try to cook myself, with my own memory of taste. I hope I can have them again. but of course with you together!


In 2000 1/1, there was the first public held countdown with display of fireworks in Kampar. We had the elder together although he was just in his 4th month old. It was a great fire works display!
In 2005 1/1, we were on way home after an extended long hours drive. They were people gathering for the scheduled fire works. We drove the kids out at before the count down and witnessed the fireworks at the car park of the mall. It was the first new year countdown for us in US.
In 2008 1/1, we were at the Padang Besar with two kids. We did not go there with purpose but it was really a drive around which we ended up there. The kids were running on the field. We managed to witness glance of fireworks from afar. The kids were enjoying the fireworks while we just stand there watching.
In 2010 1/1, there was again fireworks on the Padang Besar Ipoh. I believed you would be witnessing this display as well.
There were other years which we spent the time together on countdown with fireworks. We were at Esplanade, Gurney Drive. I remember.

Christmas and Soya Bean


I always like the Soya Bean. I do not have any preferences on any choice or any particular shops as long as it is smooth in mouth and tasty. Soo King always enjoyed the same. Soya Bean will remain forever in my memory as I did not fulfill Soo King last wish to have it. She requested two items but I only managed to get one, while I said we always could have it later and did not really need to have it now. I am still regret on this.

This shop is always proclaimed the best in Ipoh town and I believed the crowd of line up was really scary on the Christmas holiday. And so I told my friend to drive off as we can always return and we do not need to join the crowd to squeeze through. I hope I could still find the time to try the soya bean curb again.

Teluk Batek

We decided to have a short half-day trip to the nearby Teluk Batek on the Christmas break. The kids were overjoy when hearing that they could be on the beach again as they always wanted to have some funs with the sands, sea shell collecting and swimming.
It was morning at 7.30am but both of the kids were not awaked yet and so we only started off the journey at 8.15am. The journey to the beach took us nearly 1 hour and I accidentally drove the car to the TLDM (Royal Malaysian Marine) and stopped by them at the entrance. I could only laughed as this was the first ever mistake to Teluk Batek after numerous trips before.
At arrival, the kids dashed to the beach and having their funs. The little on always wanted to have sea shell collection. I did not know from where he had this idea of collecting but he insisted. It was a great day for sea swimming as it was cloudy and windy. We spent nearly 1 hour inside the water before cleaned up.
We then stopped by at the Kampung Koh for a great lunch with crabs , fishes and prawns. All of these just costed us RM70. It was really excellent as we could see the restaurant immediately filled up with other customers. We reached home at 1.30pm and all I could do after parking my car was to have myself rested on bed. I slept till 6pm while the kids watching video without the complaints of tired. Well, I know this is sight of aging for myself.


We normally do not have Christmas count down. This year was a bit different with some little fun with the kids. We turned on the youtube with Christmas and the kids were sing dancing on the bed and we popped open the juice.
But what really interested the kids were the gifts. They grabbed them and opened to find what are the special gifts. After all, I did not prepare these gifts but my sis did. The kids returned me with some hand drawing cards.
It is Christmas again. Merry Christmas, SooKing!

I am so sad seeing loss of 4 children in the news.

My heart really sank when I read such a news where all 4 cute children were drown. I always avoid such type of disaster news. But I could help myself to ask do we adults have all the safe guard measure to the kids?
Is it our ignorant and negligence?

I am having my kids back this evening for the Christmas Eve and I will definitely cook for them, a long suspended responsibility of myself. Kids, I will cook for you once more.

After all, it will be a gathering dinner for my loved one.

離思

離思--曾經滄海難為水,除卻巫山不是雲

若天上有知, 望收到至愛的離思, 他朝有縁, 天上人間携手相聚

A near miss

I may not be an absolute careful driver but never a reckless driver... On my way home after dinner from sis's home, I normally will need to pass through a narrow street. Tonight there isn't much difference. The only different was that there was a reckless motorcyclist dashed out from a junction. I braked and skidded but fortunately I drifted to the opposite of this motorcyclist and manage to avoid a deadly collision.
I reminded myself to always careful and cautious about such incident again. I will.